Self-regulation isn’t just a skill - it’s a process that unfolds in stages.
Psychologist Barry Zimmerman developed a model that explains how learners regulate themselves in three phases: forethought, performance, and self-reflection. Looking at this model through a brain function lens helps us understand why these stages matter and how we can teach children and teens to build stronger self-regulation skills.
🧠 Phase 1: Forethought – The Brain Prepares
In the forethought phase, the brain is planning ahead. The prefrontal cortex plays a central role here, helping us set goals, anticipate challenges, and activate motivation. Example: A student about to start a science project thinks through the steps, predicts obstacles, and sets a plan for success. The prefrontal cortex links with the dopamine system, activating reward pathways that boost motivation.
🧠 Phase 2: Performance – The Brain in Action
During the performance phase, the brain shifts into doing. This is where working memory (holding instructions in mind), attention networks (ignoring distractions), and inhibitory control (resisting impulses) come together. Example: While working on the science project, the student stays focused, resists the urge to check their phone, and remembers the steps needed to complete the task. The anterior cingulate cortex supports error monitoring, while the parietal lobes help sustain attention.
🧠 Phase 3: Self-Reflection – The Brain Learns From Experience
In the self-reflection phase, the brain evaluates performance. The prefrontal cortex, along with memory systems in the hippocampus, helps the learner assess what worked, what didn’t, and how to adjust next time. Example: After finishing the science project, the student reflects: “I managed my time well, but next time I’ll start my research earlier.” Reflection strengthens metacognition - thinking about thinking - and rewires neural pathways for improved future performance.
When children cycle through these three phases regularly, they are actively strengthening executive function networks. Each stage builds skills in planning, attention, impulse control, problem-solving, and resilience. This model gives parents, teachers, and therapists a framework to support not just academic success, but lifelong self-regulation.
🌱 Forethought: Encourage kids to set small, specific goals before starting a task
🌱 Performance: Teach focus strategies (timers, checklists, breaks) to support attention
🌱 Self-Reflection: Use simple questions: “What went well? What can I try differently?”
Over time, this cycle wires the brain for independent learning and self-control.
The Zimmerman Model shows us that self-regulation is a brain-based process of planning, doing, and reflecting. By guiding children through this cycle, we strengthen the prefrontal cortex and related networks, giving them the tools to manage challenges, build resilience, and succeed both in and out of the classroom.