Does Your Child Struggle with Executive Function?

Executive function skills are the brain’s management system. They help children plan, organize, remember, and complete tasks effectively. When these skills are underdeveloped or delayed, everyday learning and behavior can feel overwhelming. 

Signs Your Child Might Be Struggling with Executive Function 

You might notice challenges in everyday life if a child often:

• Struggles to plan projects or figure out the steps needed.

• Has trouble estimating how long tasks will take.

• Finds it difficult to tell stories or explain things in order, leaving out details.

• Forgets information they need while doing something, like a phone number or instructions.

• Struggles to start tasks or come up with ideas independently.

• Has difficulty retrieving information from memory when needed.

Supporting Your Child’s Brain Development 

The good news is that executive function skills can be strengthened with the right supports:

• Use visual schedules and reminders.

• Break projects into smaller steps.

• Practice working memory games (like remembering a short list).

• Provide guided practice before expecting independent work.

• Celebrate small successes to reinforce brain pathways for persistence.

What This Means for Your Child 

Observing these patterns can help parents identify areas where their child’s brain may need extra support. By providing step-by-step guidance, visual reminders, and practice with planning and memory, children can strengthen their executive function skills, boosting independence, focus, and confidence over time.